From Wikipedia:
... a primitive root
modulo $n$ is any number $g$ with the property that any number coprime to
$n$ is congruent to a power of $g$ modulo $n$. In other words, $g$ is a
generator of the multiplicative group of integers modulo $n$. That is,
for every integer $a$ coprime to $n$, there is an integer $k$ such that $g^k \equiv a\; (mod \;n)$.
So you want to find an integer $g$ such that when you take powers of $g$, then you can get all numbers from $1$ to $12$ (mod $13$). (Since $13$ is prime). So just pick a number $g$ and compute
$$
g, g^2, g^3, \dots. \quad(\text{mod } 13)
$$
If you find a $g$ such that this list contains all numbers $1,\dots, 12$, then you have found a primitive root.